[Drew]

So I'm finally gonna get around to talking about one the least talked about tips in NBE: The Positive/Happy Mind!

You've probably heard the saying, "the body does what the mind says," and maybe have wondered if it's true or not. Or maybe you disregard it all completely. I'm here to tell you that it does make a difference. Being a psychology student, we learn about these concepts on the daily. I've looked at studies where people convince themselves that they have a sickness and believe it so strongly that they have symptoms of that sickness, but when they go to the hospital nothing is found anywhere in their body. Amazing right? Maybe you have experience this in your own life or know someone who has done this? And I know what you may be thinking, "Isn't that a hypochondriac?" Well, that's completely different because those people have a fear that they are suffering from a disease but their body doesn't manifest the symptoms nor can anything be found when they go to the hospital despite numerous testing and reassurance by medical staff. 

But just consider that if the human mind is so strong that you can manifest symptoms of a sickness, that it is also possible to create positive effects as well? How do you see yourself and your breasts? Do you look in the mirror and think, "My breast are so small! I hate them! I'm never going to be the size I want! This NBE stuff isn't working and a waste of time!" Or do tell yourself, "Wow! I'm looking good today! My boobs are growing nicely and gaining a lovely shape! I can feel the estrogen flowing to them as I massage! With more time, I know they will be the size I want!" The difference between these two people who are on NBE is that the person with the positive mindset will most likely reach their goals and keep going while the negative mindset will more than likely quit after a month or so. 

Your negative mind will halt your progress because you are telling body that you are already at your limits. No matter how many supplements you choke down, you body with not do anything with them and it will waste your precious time and money. Please do not be negative about your boobs. 

• Appreciate their growth and shape they've given you. 
  
• Even if your nipples and areolas get puffy and that's the extent of the progress you've made, then praise them for that. 
  
• Touch them and love them. 
  
• Make their care part of your daily routine.
  
• Give them good massages while you imagine the ideal size you want them to be. 
  
• Pamper them with a good bra that fits and cradles them properly. 
  
• Give them healthy and nutritious foods to help them grow and don't just eat junk foods that they cannot use. 
  
• If you can, kiss/lick them to show your affection. 
  

A happy mind should not be ignored when doing NBE. Psychology has show time and time again that your brain can make anything happen. Take care of your girls and think positively about them, and I promise they will take care of you <3

I do see where you are coming from and applaud this post. I don't think there is any person more critical on BN about their own body and dissapointed and jealous of others than myself. But I'm extraordinary top heavy, my bras are bursting at the seams and I'm my own worst critic.I see and understand the post but ......idk? Stop typing crap Drew!