I think pear explained it better as the skin getting looser.

5000 calories a day? wow.

Understand too  considering the waistline the origin of the female form I tho personally wanted to lose everything muscle mass too getting more feminine arms and legs, or what media encourages to view as feminine.

Am in no way saying that a skinny woman is more desirable than another.

Well not for me personally I prefer roundness, just not on me