[Drew]

I think most here feel the same Stevenator, we just want what has been denied to us by birth but not go the whole way.
You are very lucky to have such an understanding wife, though I also understand her concerns that you write about.
From your posts am sure you have it all in order and things will be fine, wish my wife was so understanding but she is still clueless as to what I'm doing. Or at least I hope so.