[Shirazmn]

well done ,would you say you focus on 38 a and b cup ,im thinking we are closely matched i have done my measurements for bra calculator and it says 38dd ( which seams huge to me )

Yes, many calculators make the 38 band sizes start from a D cup, but the cups in that size are massive for me (I have a few).
I found a cheap retailer (Primark) here in the UK that makes 38A and Bs and they fit well, so...

Male bodies are different from female bodies when it comes to bust size and distance between the breasts, so it's always gonna be a hit and miss, I guess.