[dementedClown]

Thanks so much, everyone, for sharing your points-of-view. I hope others chime in!

Demented, I have seen most of your posts and I don't want to just start repeating what others have said, so I'll say this:

As a human being - on earth and presumably in a free country (US?), you have one great thing going for you: you have freewill. Change what you can, when you can. Find your way. Don't worry that your issues won't all be worked out this week or this month, but do visualize and try to move towards making your life/body/whatever what it needs to be. Because of that freewill, it's very possible that you'll end up in a better place a year or two from now than you even thought possible. Does a year sound way too long? If it does, it's because you're young. When you get to my age, you'll realize how youth and impatience kept you from pursuing your goals. Don't squander this opportunity - change what you can and try to be patient. You can work this out.

K.

I for one am happy that this site exists. There are a ton of trans centric sites that cater to those in transition. I've been on them like most of us here trying to learn what I wanted to know and I've seen the way people get treated that stray from the approved path. I've been on the gynecomastia sites and 98% are guys who want nothing to do with breasts and will have their chests mangled by a ham handed surgeon just to get rid of their breasts. I discovered this site back when it was part of breastnexus, I would spend hours reading and trying to filter out posts from the women that were irrelevant to a male trying to grow breasts. I would like to thank whoever decided to spin off the male portion. I have always felt that this is a very inclusive place with the focused goal of helping men grow breasts. The transgender community is a small one but I think that community of men who want to grow breasts and stay male is even smaller.

K. I don't want to be a bigot and I want to understand. But I don't get the beard and boobs. I get genderfluids who want to be a woman in the bedroom, but man in the workplace so they don't get bullied for being trans. But I am trying to understand those who want a beard and boobs at the same time, because I do not understand.