12-04-2019, 11:53 AM
Hi Dianna
I just want to throw my 2 cents in here from a non dysphoric yet kinky minded point of view.
Kinky play can open the doors to one's true self but can also lead to illusion and delusion. nless you make your kink your life (which happens very rarely) you must always remember that kinky play is like going to a fantastic holiday village in a deserted location. You'll want to go back there, but if you go off season all you'll find is dust and basic services.
I have spoken with many individuals who thought they were trans just because they experienced the submissive side and, in the construction of gender given by our society, "passive means female". Passive, like in a chastity cage, can also mean male if you get out of that mindset.
Whatever choice you make, be sure to make it when "at rest".
Good luck with your journey of self-discovery, wherever it may lead you!
I just want to throw my 2 cents in here from a non dysphoric yet kinky minded point of view.
Kinky play can open the doors to one's true self but can also lead to illusion and delusion. nless you make your kink your life (which happens very rarely) you must always remember that kinky play is like going to a fantastic holiday village in a deserted location. You'll want to go back there, but if you go off season all you'll find is dust and basic services.
I have spoken with many individuals who thought they were trans just because they experienced the submissive side and, in the construction of gender given by our society, "passive means female". Passive, like in a chastity cage, can also mean male if you get out of that mindset.
Whatever choice you make, be sure to make it when "at rest".
Good luck with your journey of self-discovery, wherever it may lead you!