[C vous plait]

I've often thought about this as I'm a big guy too.

I don't feel the need to present myself as female so much as to BE female. I don't plan to really change my wardrobe much at all.

I don't do xdress or makeup or anything. I'll wear a bra if I get to the point where I need one. There are all kinds of mens underwear that are made almost identical to panties, with the exception of giving a little extra room up front. I wear those now and they feel just about the same as any women's panties that I've tried.

I wear jeans and lean towards flannels and button down shirts. To me a beautiful woman can look just as beautiful in that as anything else. Now, I don't think I'll ever pass for a beautiful woman, even if I do get the curves I'm looking for.

It's just that for me having the equipment and feeling that sense of rightness of alignment with where I'm at psychologically is far more important than anyone else recognizing me as a woman.

Does that make sense? I know this may not be helpful for where you want to go, but it's where I'm at right now. What do you think?

C