08-02-2018, 02:18 PM
Jullie, I have to ask, but what do think being female feels like?
Hint: it feels Normal!
what you`re looking for isn`t missing and hormones didn`t make it go away, She is still You and within you, part of transition (a Big part actually) is the Acceptance of this, the feeling free to let her out, it can involve an active deliberate effort but mostly it`s an organic natural thing, but there will be some work involved!
letting go of expectations, going with the flow and relaxing into it will be helpful, try to avoid overthinking it or trying to control it, both of which are masculine traits, whereas going with the flow is much more feminine mindset.
also you have to remember that when you start stuff like this our own bodies will try to seek balance again, and often this is done by Up-regulating T and frequently it overshoots the mark for a while before it settles, so that`s worth taking into account too. xx
Hint: it feels Normal!
what you`re looking for isn`t missing and hormones didn`t make it go away, She is still You and within you, part of transition (a Big part actually) is the Acceptance of this, the feeling free to let her out, it can involve an active deliberate effort but mostly it`s an organic natural thing, but there will be some work involved!
letting go of expectations, going with the flow and relaxing into it will be helpful, try to avoid overthinking it or trying to control it, both of which are masculine traits, whereas going with the flow is much more feminine mindset.
also you have to remember that when you start stuff like this our own bodies will try to seek balance again, and often this is done by Up-regulating T and frequently it overshoots the mark for a while before it settles, so that`s worth taking into account too. xx