28-01-2018, 01:39 PM
Oh, as Jenn, always she!
It’s kind of funny, several times when I’ve been out to dinner with other t-girls, dressed en femme, servers have a confusing moment when most of us pay our bill with a credit card that has our male name! It goes something like, “thank you, er, uh... (long pause), thank you!” One of the more experienced girls, who was transitioning, started saying to the server as soon as he or she came to the table, “Oh, honey, just call us all ‘Ma’am!’ “ It worked out well, especially in a group where about half could pass and half had challenges.
Thanks for asking!
Jenn
It’s kind of funny, several times when I’ve been out to dinner with other t-girls, dressed en femme, servers have a confusing moment when most of us pay our bill with a credit card that has our male name! It goes something like, “thank you, er, uh... (long pause), thank you!” One of the more experienced girls, who was transitioning, started saying to the server as soon as he or she came to the table, “Oh, honey, just call us all ‘Ma’am!’ “ It worked out well, especially in a group where about half could pass and half had challenges.
Thanks for asking!
Jenn