04-12-2017, 10:48 AM
Wow! quite a variety here then, I think that`s wonderful! 
Of course it doesn`t help me at all, as it`s totally blown the seeds of a hypothesis completely out the water LOL.
I wondered if our sexual attraction could be used to differentiate between the Be/Do idea, it would seem not not, at least not in All cases.
I can`t relate to living vicariously through another, although I have heard it mentioned a few times in other places as well, enough to know it`s perfectly normal, and actually quite common and not just with Trans stuff (why do we go to the Movies?).
In a relationship I have a strong need to feel Protected, My wife is a 2`nd Dan black belt and used to teach it, she does all the heavy lifting even taking lids off jars for me (bless her), basicaly She`s my hero! whether it`s a guy or gal, this need is the same, and though i have tried it the other way around in previous relationships, it`s just a dynamic I can`t live with.
Unless it involved my kids, then I`ll take anyone appart or die trying!
Bobbi: you said "If I see an attractive woman that catches me eye sexually, I start to strip her down to her basics, and at that point I switch to.. 'Thats what I want to look like!'"
I can relate to this in a Generic way, I`ll lok at eye makup, hair, nails, clothes, all sorts of things like that and wonder if I could rock that same look (I think all women do this too), but i would do the same if she were 5`6 petite thing or a 6`5 foot Amazon. that`s as far as the parallel goes for me, I`d be all starry eyed on tongue tied with the Amazon babe, and be all like "Cute, were`d you get your nails done hun?" with the 5`6 gal. LOL
oh well... back to the drawing board! LOL
Of course it doesn`t help me at all, as it`s totally blown the seeds of a hypothesis completely out the water LOL.
I wondered if our sexual attraction could be used to differentiate between the Be/Do idea, it would seem not not, at least not in All cases.
I can`t relate to living vicariously through another, although I have heard it mentioned a few times in other places as well, enough to know it`s perfectly normal, and actually quite common and not just with Trans stuff (why do we go to the Movies?).
In a relationship I have a strong need to feel Protected, My wife is a 2`nd Dan black belt and used to teach it, she does all the heavy lifting even taking lids off jars for me (bless her), basicaly She`s my hero! whether it`s a guy or gal, this need is the same, and though i have tried it the other way around in previous relationships, it`s just a dynamic I can`t live with.
Unless it involved my kids, then I`ll take anyone appart or die trying!
Bobbi: you said "If I see an attractive woman that catches me eye sexually, I start to strip her down to her basics, and at that point I switch to.. 'Thats what I want to look like!'"
I can relate to this in a Generic way, I`ll lok at eye makup, hair, nails, clothes, all sorts of things like that and wonder if I could rock that same look (I think all women do this too), but i would do the same if she were 5`6 petite thing or a 6`5 foot Amazon. that`s as far as the parallel goes for me, I`d be all starry eyed on tongue tied with the Amazon babe, and be all like "Cute, were`d you get your nails done hun?" with the 5`6 gal. LOL
oh well... back to the drawing board!
LOL