[Katie]

I guess the reason is your truth and condition and reasons for transition has led you to success: you transitioned, you look good, and most importantly you appear happy.
My truth, condition and reasons seem very different, admittedly less valid and... clay feeted and that leads me to doubt and fear of failure.

I won't look up what gender slumming means. I would probably just learn it's the worst reason for transition of them all.

I appear happy because I AM Happy!

you need to dump all your limiting beleifs, you`re outgrowing them and they no longer serve you!
when you realise that not One Ounce of your self esteem and worth relies upon others validation, approval or even Acceptance of you, then you`ll be truly free! and only You can do this for You, nobody is going to do it for you, you have to be your own Hero and come to your own rescue.

Peace xx