[oki]

I`m a little confused as to why you see My truth as making Your truth somehow invalid? or even that you feel it invalidates you in anyway?
I don`t know where people get the idea from that it`s a competition or they`re somehow less than a trans person because they "only" crossdress, or More of a trans person because they just Are Women born with male bits (or Some bits in my case)?
I really, REALLY don`t understand this???

I guess the reason is your truth and condition and reasons for transition has led you to success: you transitioned, you look good, and most importantly you appear happy.
My truth, condition and reasons seem very different, admittedly less valid and... clay feeted:) and that leads me to doubt and fear of failure.

I won't look up what gender slumming means. I would probably just learn it's the worst reason for transition of them all:D.