it would have to be somewhere close and somewhere safe for me to meet up. I don`t drive and I know that 2 trans people out together in public is almost a guaranteed Out, no matter how well you pass, 2 together is just asking for trouble.
Although if you Did go in guy mode, then that would be fine, i go out with my guy friends all the while and I`v never been clocked or outed.
And no, I`m not being transphobic, just Practical