[Lotus]

Oh Lotus,

your new avatar is really nice and feminine. I know that it takes a lot of courage to present one's face publicly, because face is something that causes me the great deal of dysphoria. On the other side we are seldom able to judge our face objectively. We always tend to see all the features we don't like. I mean... try to believe others when they say that the photo looks beautiful   .

From what I've seen of you - your figure and your face, I think you would not have any problems presenting as female.

Poly

Hi Poly, 

please forgive the late reply (a bit of brain fog yesterday), 

Thank you for the words of encouragement, they go a long way. I admire (and respect) your courage for what you've shared about yourself here, it inspires me and many others too, thank you. Presenting (in public) is my own self imposed dysphoria...it's kinda like an all or nothing deal, meaning if i can't pass 100% I won't be putting myself out there.   I know that's unrealistic expectations, I'm working on it though. I like to see and read about real experiences TG's face in their daily life, however, I've not found a place that shares a daily information of such...does it exist?...I can't count Instagram or even YouTube to deliver what I seek ...(no offense to the lovely models). I don't have an agenda to promote, nor do I wish to follow others with " agendas "...I just want to seek others with similar circumstances like my own and gather inspiration and information daily....is that to much ask? 

L.