[Dianna1395]

Time is only making this tougher. I can barely find time to come here and post; I had to wait until she was asleep. I feel trapped... I can't leave my house to look for work, which is the first step of escape. My own mother is throwing the whole "you got yourself in this mess, you can get yourself out" garbage. I'm also afraid of what she may do if I leave. This is all causing my depression to worsen and I don't know what to do. Nobody cares because apparently having a penis is supposed to make jobs and home ownership fall from the fucking sky. 

#muhmaleprivilege

Gamer,
I very much sympathize.
When dating a nurse, she pointed out the difference between empathise and sympathize. IIRC, empathise kept you removed, at a higher level, than the person you're talking with. Sympathize is on the same level.
I do mean sympathize.

As to "never stick your dick in crazy," they all look normal. The .Learn world let's them get away with being bitchy children. Look at "fearless girl" staring g down the Bull of WW2 American economy...  Aka, petulant child who thinks she knows how everything works....   But you KNOW the moment real work is needed, "I'm just a girl," is all you hear, "won't some big strong man do it for me...?". And plenty of thirsty guys will. There are more of those now than ever before, and there is less community and less discipline from the (un)fairer sex... 
Can't tell a woman anything, least of all that she's mistreating a man. He should just, "man up," and get back to providing for her...

Thanks for the help there.... "True Transsexual" cred established, it's always the man's fault.

Moving on, I don't have a lot more I can offer, Gamer, except that you'll need to be a dick about things, and not care. Ignore her wishes, find time to get out, and look into loans maybe. You might but be able to play on the BS that's going around, your "gender identity" (google the male competing in women's weightlifting, and there the trans MAMA fighter who is competing as a woman, and there are the bathroom events, and...  Hence the quotes. No slur intended.) might be enough to force a shelter to offer some help.

Meantime maybe we can get some additional support here.
Kickstarter or GoFundMe?
What were the ages for your children?
Any medications she takes, any way to drug her a bit? Not talking something she isn't already on.

Meantime, what is your resume like? Got a means to generate income? Can you do something like write a book or use an affiliate at Amazon or make a blog...?
I know you had posted this elsewhere, but I can't recall the answers.

Crossing state lines is a good idea as well. I wish I could tell you where to go, who to contact, but sad truth is since you're male, many places take you to be the "primary aggressor" even if you've been attacked with a weapon and have been wounded. Better to find a way to disappear. That we may that be able to help with, but it means clearing out a lot of data...  Access us from an AWS image, and purge data on your computer and the router, so this forum and all your normal pages are harder to find. Scan the computer for Trojans and keyloggers. Maybe even run a Linux live disk, so there's no longer anything on your computer?

Based on the answers there, and the legal risks (e.g., your children might be a real problem, you could perhaps be seen as kidnapping them...), we can help you a bit, maybe.

-Dianna