28-11-2016, 07:47 PM
Much love for all the support I get here. Thank you all!!
Re Jannet: Yes, meeting people face to face while at first daunting has been a true blessing. Nothing is quite the same as being able to interact with someone one on one. I wasn't really sure what to expect, but it has definitely been a worthwhile experience. Unfortunately things are still very shaky with my spouse. I will be setting up an appointment later today to see a therapist, and hopefully in time she will join me, or at least join me at some of the TG Support Group meetings.
Re Emma: Of course Emma, I am always grateful for your company and everyone else that stops by in the chatroom. As you know I am super excited, this Tuesday and Wednesday I am finally doing it! I am going out en femme to go shopping where I live! I am getting a bit nervous now, but I believe I found some of my wife's old clothes that fit her too small, and fit me just right. So she shouldn't miss them, I hope. At least I won't feel too out of place. Now I just gotta figure out shoes.
Re Katie: Thank you Katie for the book recommendations, I appreciate it.
Re Aria: Thank you for the affirmation on Katie's recommendation!
Re Poly: It has definitely been an adventure, filled with laughs, and tears, a few more tears. sighs No, my spouse was tired of the secrets and the lies. I've asked again even after I told her if she regrets knowing what she now knows. And while she states she doesn't, I can't help but feel like she'd prefer this all get swept under the rug, and be forgotten. I don't know what the future holds for me, nor do I know what the future holds for her and I just have to keep working at mending the bonds and see where it takes us. Thank you Poly for your comments, and the post, interesting information on that link!
Re Jannet: Yes, meeting people face to face while at first daunting has been a true blessing. Nothing is quite the same as being able to interact with someone one on one. I wasn't really sure what to expect, but it has definitely been a worthwhile experience. Unfortunately things are still very shaky with my spouse. I will be setting up an appointment later today to see a therapist, and hopefully in time she will join me, or at least join me at some of the TG Support Group meetings.
Re Emma: Of course Emma, I am always grateful for your company and everyone else that stops by in the chatroom. As you know I am super excited, this Tuesday and Wednesday I am finally doing it! I am going out en femme to go shopping where I live! I am getting a bit nervous now, but I believe I found some of my wife's old clothes that fit her too small, and fit me just right. So she shouldn't miss them, I hope. At least I won't feel too out of place. Now I just gotta figure out shoes.
Re Katie: Thank you Katie for the book recommendations, I appreciate it.
Re Aria: Thank you for the affirmation on Katie's recommendation!
Re Poly: It has definitely been an adventure, filled with laughs, and tears, a few more tears. sighs No, my spouse was tired of the secrets and the lies. I've asked again even after I told her if she regrets knowing what she now knows. And while she states she doesn't, I can't help but feel like she'd prefer this all get swept under the rug, and be forgotten. I don't know what the future holds for me, nor do I know what the future holds for her and I just have to keep working at mending the bonds and see where it takes us. Thank you Poly for your comments, and the post, interesting information on that link!