[The First Aria]

This May help, if you want a little insight into what a range women think that are partners of people like us, I can`t recommend "My husband Betty" highly enough!
it`s a must read for any of us with partners in my opinion.

she wrote a followup book called "She`s not the man I Married", also very good, but a little brutal in its Honesty.

I have picked up the first one on Kindle, the other probably this next week.  It seems to be right on the money....