02-11-2016, 07:38 AM
Sophia,
I feel for you, as does everyone else on here, I'm sure. Like everything else to do with this subject, how you proceed with your situation is purely personal and nobody can really help with that, except to be a sounding board and shoulder to cry on if needed.
The only piece of advice I would give you is that, whatever the pressure, do NOT promise her that you will stop everything. You may succeed for a while, but sooner or later it will come back, and then she will find out ( wives always do!), and then you'll have been lying and ....!
I feel for you, as does everyone else on here, I'm sure. Like everything else to do with this subject, how you proceed with your situation is purely personal and nobody can really help with that, except to be a sounding board and shoulder to cry on if needed.
The only piece of advice I would give you is that, whatever the pressure, do NOT promise her that you will stop everything. You may succeed for a while, but sooner or later it will come back, and then she will find out ( wives always do!), and then you'll have been lying and ....!