01-11-2016, 09:01 PM
Sofia,
Congratulations on getting around to having the conversation, even if the way it came about wasnt the best. As I said on chat I think your wife is taking her time to process things so she may be less bothered by it in future (perhaps!). I guess depending on her point of view there are worse things to have been doing "behind her back".
In terms of the in your head comment she made I think that was about her dealing with things - from how its worded anyway but I could well be wrong about that. I think you can over analyse somethings which might well be said in the heat of the moment and perhaps dont mean what you think they might.
In terms of longer term, I think you need to decide what you want, I appreciate you have baby bunnies to take care of which does complicate things a lot but I think you have to do whatever feels right to you, even if it isnt the easiest option, but you dont want to end up regretting the choices you make now in 10-15 years time.
Hope it all works out though anyway
Megan
Congratulations on getting around to having the conversation, even if the way it came about wasnt the best. As I said on chat I think your wife is taking her time to process things so she may be less bothered by it in future (perhaps!). I guess depending on her point of view there are worse things to have been doing "behind her back".
In terms of the in your head comment she made I think that was about her dealing with things - from how its worded anyway but I could well be wrong about that. I think you can over analyse somethings which might well be said in the heat of the moment and perhaps dont mean what you think they might.
In terms of longer term, I think you need to decide what you want, I appreciate you have baby bunnies to take care of which does complicate things a lot but I think you have to do whatever feels right to you, even if it isnt the easiest option, but you dont want to end up regretting the choices you make now in 10-15 years time.
Hope it all works out though anyway
Megan