[Allyson]

Some questions lack easy answers- and none more than this one.  My wife notices the increasing boobs, and the longer hair, and the longer nails... but seems OK as long as we don't talk about it.  I simultaneously feel like I'm being deceptive, but at the same time feel like she already knows. I feel as transparent as Janet  Sometimes I honestly think she knew what I was before I did, so nothing surprises her.  

I am thankful that she does not complain, but would really like to have a discussion about the pink elephant in the room.   Maybe I should just be happy to leave it alone.