[jannet.duff]

Not so much two people, but one genuine female, and the one we hide behind the rest of the time.  Encouraging progress- both you and the wife.  Glad that both seem more accepting of Janet.

I wish it was as easy of that. My wife is more accepting, but only to a point. I have been told point blank during our discusions that if/when Jannet becomes full time, we ( as a couple ) are done. Am I supposed to swap being unhappy with myself ( in a nice house ), to being unhappy in a one bedroom appartment. ( alone )