At my last therapist session I was asked when I am Jannet do I feel and act differently than when I am "him" I thought for a second and answered no I don't think so. My therapist indicated that I looked completely different than normal, not just the clothes, but the way I talked and communicated .. I thought at the time " yeah whatever ".
So, on Thursday my wife and I went out to a restaurant before my meeting, I ask for a table, we order, eat, do some idle chit chat then leave. At the meeting when we walk in, we sat our hello's settle down and start talking to people.
No biggie, but after the meeting my wife says the same thing as the therapist. As Jannet, I am more outgoing and interactive than as "him".
I am thinking "Wow" I know I feel more at ease when I am Jannet, but I never thought it was that obvious to other people.
I was asked at the meeting when I was going to fully transition. I have my usual canned reply. That I'm not sure, no real timeline, I may or I may not. Regardless, it won't happen till my youngest has finished school. My wife just looks at me and says " Whatever, it's just a matter of time before Jannet is here full time, even if she won't admit it to herself, it's quite obvious"
Am I that transparent ??
So, on Thursday my wife and I went out to a restaurant before my meeting, I ask for a table, we order, eat, do some idle chit chat then leave. At the meeting when we walk in, we sat our hello's settle down and start talking to people.
No biggie, but after the meeting my wife says the same thing as the therapist. As Jannet, I am more outgoing and interactive than as "him".
I am thinking "Wow" I know I feel more at ease when I am Jannet, but I never thought it was that obvious to other people.
I was asked at the meeting when I was going to fully transition. I have my usual canned reply. That I'm not sure, no real timeline, I may or I may not. Regardless, it won't happen till my youngest has finished school. My wife just looks at me and says " Whatever, it's just a matter of time before Jannet is here full time, even if she won't admit it to herself, it's quite obvious"
Am I that transparent ??