[Allyson]

Hello and welcome, it's a great big new world out there and can be absolutely wonderful albeit a bit terrifying at the same time. As mentioned, many people in similar situations, or been there done that. 

I try and try to say something, but I am constantly met with fierce resistance every time I even hint at it. Guess only time will tell. I wish you the best of luck and glad to have you aboard.

Precious Bunny- thank you for your warm welcome and kind words.  I have followed your progress and understand what you are saying- I think DW knew before I did, but seems to derail every attempt to discuss it.  However, the pink elephant in the room is getting harder to ignore.