03-10-2010, 11:50 AM
Kerensa is right, the ones that really love you will surprise you if you are open. I had been laboring over this for some time, and hated that I was considering such a move without my wifes knowledge. I explained the idea as delicately, but also as frankly as possible, without sounding like a blithering idot with a focus of upturning the entire apple cart. She was ok with it... At this point, I don't necessarily have her approval or acceptance to come out with bra straps flying, but she does understand that this is something that is important to me, in my search for personal acceptance. I asked myself over and over again: if this is worth doing? It is only worth doing in the light of day and with my wife's knowledge and tentative support. The horizon is much brighter now. What a feeling!

