03-08-2016, 11:05 PM
If I had not taken myself to hospital, for fear of doing myself self harm. Like you, I would still be sitting on the sideline, wondering. I hope your inner troubles do not take you as far as I ended up going. It's a dark place. Luckly for me my wife accepted that the Dr wanted me on HRT to resolve my inner strugles. However, it should be said, nothing is all sunshine and rainbows here either. I am still presenting as male, for my employment and my family. My wife hates what she sees, and is most defintely not looking forward to me NEEDING to wear a bra. I really wish you luck on sitting down and explaining to you wife how you feel you need to go forward. It really is not an easy talk. But in the end, you are really the only person who can make this decision, and have to live with the consequences.