[The First Aria]

My wife asked me a few years back, why I liked to wear my "play clothes". I told her it was a mood type of thing, rather I wanted to accept my feelings of being laid back, as a female, or back to being masculine.

About a month ago, she asked me somewhat the same thing again...

I am not sure if my second answer so much lined up with the original, but here is what I told her...

"Well, women can wear men's shirts... there is a least one by a well known female country singer who extolls doing so, women are increasingly wearing anything from all male clothing to very short or non existent hair style... And any of them MIGHT get a glance.... But let a man wear a plunging neckline and all hell breaks loose..." I further told her I thought that was being "two faced as hell"....

After that, she didn't say anymore.....

I have said it before, but I think here is as good as place as any to repeat...... I don't ever seeing myself turning my "man card" in as a very good friend once said... But, if I want to go out in public "en-femme" and try to act, feel and getting a passing grade.... that should be my choice. Just as we let women do the same... Am I off base????