30-03-2016, 05:34 PM
Hi, wmpwiwlw,
Sounds like Chasteberry / Vitex is a good place to start. you might also want to consider pharma, dutasteride or finasteride, if you have any family history of male pattern baldness. (I like the idea of herbs better, but the cost is prohibitive sometimes, and for what you're talking about, it now sounds like Pharma might be cheaper in the long run. You'll need to check, see if insurance would cover, etc.)
PM will work to revitalize you in a feminine sense, and you'll want to be sure of what you want in the long term. You might end up turning into a girl, essentially; will your wife be happy or upset with that? Or, maybe you'll want to become a Poly arrangement of some sort?
Though I would politely point out, once a month isn't exactly that often. If she just doesn't like sex, maybe... there's breach of contract. Don't want to explain the whole thing, but there's a contract in marriage, and sex is part of the deal. Something else to keep in mind, there might be a better arrangement to consider, too. Depends on what you want, and what the costs are, same as PM or Pharma. Can't advise you on that part...
-Dianna
Sounds like Chasteberry / Vitex is a good place to start. you might also want to consider pharma, dutasteride or finasteride, if you have any family history of male pattern baldness. (I like the idea of herbs better, but the cost is prohibitive sometimes, and for what you're talking about, it now sounds like Pharma might be cheaper in the long run. You'll need to check, see if insurance would cover, etc.)
PM will work to revitalize you in a feminine sense, and you'll want to be sure of what you want in the long term. You might end up turning into a girl, essentially; will your wife be happy or upset with that? Or, maybe you'll want to become a Poly arrangement of some sort?
Though I would politely point out, once a month isn't exactly that often. If she just doesn't like sex, maybe... there's breach of contract. Don't want to explain the whole thing, but there's a contract in marriage, and sex is part of the deal. Something else to keep in mind, there might be a better arrangement to consider, too. Depends on what you want, and what the costs are, same as PM or Pharma. Can't advise you on that part...
-Dianna