07-01-2016, 04:24 PM
and just to cheer us all up
This mtf says and this is on FULL hrt, so we have no excuse.
My experience has been that sex, arousal, masturbation - the whole kitten kaboodle - has gotten better. I'm able to obtain and maintain an erection better now than before HRT. I'm like a freakin unicorn when it comes to that - so YMMV. Arousal takes longer and more foreplay is necessary(even during solo sex!), but it's totally worth it. Everything feels STRONGER now, more vibrant, more satisfying. I think it has to do with my psych matching up with the feedback that I get from my body - I FEEL like a woman now rather just KNOWING for I'm supposed to be feeling, and being disappointed that I don't. I've also found that fantasy and emotion and tenderness and romance and demonstrated affection and mood play larger roles in the necessities for my arousal.
Like many girls have said, you need to plan for the worst and hope for the best. Going into HRT, I accepted that I may lose the ability to gain an erection, and that I would need to find other ways to get myself off. Prostate stimulation seems to be preferred by many transgirls. It's true that the whole area has become more sensitive for me - when I got everything rocking, it's amazing. ^_^
There are alternatives if you lose the ability to maintain an erection - viagra, toys, and strap-ons being some of them.
I wish you and your wife the best!
This mtf says and this is on FULL hrt, so we have no excuse.
My experience has been that sex, arousal, masturbation - the whole kitten kaboodle - has gotten better. I'm able to obtain and maintain an erection better now than before HRT. I'm like a freakin unicorn when it comes to that - so YMMV. Arousal takes longer and more foreplay is necessary(even during solo sex!), but it's totally worth it. Everything feels STRONGER now, more vibrant, more satisfying. I think it has to do with my psych matching up with the feedback that I get from my body - I FEEL like a woman now rather just KNOWING for I'm supposed to be feeling, and being disappointed that I don't. I've also found that fantasy and emotion and tenderness and romance and demonstrated affection and mood play larger roles in the necessities for my arousal.
Like many girls have said, you need to plan for the worst and hope for the best. Going into HRT, I accepted that I may lose the ability to gain an erection, and that I would need to find other ways to get myself off. Prostate stimulation seems to be preferred by many transgirls. It's true that the whole area has become more sensitive for me - when I got everything rocking, it's amazing. ^_^
There are alternatives if you lose the ability to maintain an erection - viagra, toys, and strap-ons being some of them.
I wish you and your wife the best!