[trulymelissa]

Hi girls, I have just picked up on your topic and I think I may have something to add to your stories. I too have had the urge to xdress for some years now. I started away back as a confused preteen and then stopped until about five years ago. I have since become separated from my wife and have all the time I want to dress as I please. However, when I look back at how our relationship deteriorated I think I may have used the desire to effeminate myself as a crutch for the loss of love and tenderness I desperately needed. Although I have not had a relationship since my breakup, I have become more accustomed to my own company and my desires have lessened. The reason I bring this up is that I too, am experiencing less of an urge to dress enfemme than I used to. Although this happens to us all now and then, I feel that maybe maybe my initial urge to be a woman was sparked off by my wifes coldness towards me. Does this make sense? I still love to wear feminine clothes but I don't have to same excitement these days. Will it come back to me? I hope so.

Thanks for listening

Love, Melissa.