[Sullivan]

I may be tactless, but, hopefully, speaking a few home truths just might spark some shame and a feeling of how the other person feels.

And shame is always so helpful. Its such a positive emotion, after all. (rolling eyes here.)

Clearly you are of the generation that thinks that, whatever you do, you should never feel shame.

Where did I say that?

Charles Manson will be relieved.

Oh, now there's a cogent argument for you. (Aside: I guess it's too trite to say "Hitler" now. Godwin's Law will have to be updated.)

If you really think cheating on a partner is ok,

And where did I say that?

(You're not very good at this, you know?)