[MysticDwagon]

Hey MandiB, not to sound a bit pesimistic, but i dont think this is something you should really keep your wife in the dark about. she will eventually start asking "whats this pill for?" or "whats that spoonful of powder?" and getting more and more curious as things start to grow. eventually the hiding the truth and/or outright lies will catch up to you and will do more harm to your relationship than good. just sit down with her and talk things out. let her know why you want to do this and tell her the ups and downs of it all, medically speaking. the biggest fear that will cross her mind is that she is losing the man in her life. if all your after is the breasts and not going for a full transistion then she will likely be more understanding and supportive than you give her credit for. just take care to not go overboard with messing with your hormones... if you try for the "fast" route with anything that messes with hormones, you run the risk of not being able to "perform your manly duties" with your significant other. everything in balance, takes longer, but gives the "best of both worlds"

thats just my opinion