[ellacraig]

Hope you find a place to stay elain

So do I but if worse comes to worse, I'll put my stuff in storage, keep my tent and sleeping bag out and do some camping out for a month or two till I have enough cash set aside to get my own place.

It just makes everything more difficult for me, which is exactly what my brother intends. It's his way of punishing me for not moving with them. It's this kind of behavior from my family that caused me to have no contact with them for 20 years. Guess i should have just kept that going instead of breaking it. There won't be a third chance though.

~E

Sadly its a case of "you cant pick your family"
Mine too have done irrepairable damage although a mense has been made in latter years.

Sounds like you have been screwed over royally based on the above.
I hope the best for you though. Life is trying at times