[Chrissiegirl]

What Cheryl has said is absolutely right. If you get onto a regime that works, the first changes will be to your nipples, they will enlarge hugely and become permanently erect. I have grown to a small B cup and I definitely have a woman's chest, even without a bra and it is impossible to hide. You really need to think about your wife's reaction and whether you could live with boobs. In your present state of mind, I would not advise PM. It is the closest plant material to oestrogen and has a huge effect on mood and sex drive. That is one for the true transsexual.
I wish you well, whatever you decide to do