17-01-2015, 03:49 AM
I'll bet it does!!!!
On one hand, it is said that if people you think are your friends won't stick by you no matter what, they were never really your friends to begin with, were they?
On the other hand, IF you think they are at least marginally open to hearing from you again, maybe you could write them a short letter and try to explain to them (if you haven't already) how they are throwing away a great friendship over something that YOU have no real control over. It's NOT YOUR fault that you are this way!! If they suddenly became invalids, would THEY like it if you threw away THEIR friendship simply because of something they had no real control over? Give them something to think about!!
If they don't see things in a better light after that, then, THAT'S not something you can help, either. I guess you'll just have to drop them from your friend list! Who knows, maybe, in time, they'll figure out that they fucked you over for a REALLY stupid reason and decide they really DO want to be your friend!
At least you have a FEW really good friends!! :-)
TRUST me, I KNOW how you feel about how much it hurts!! I've had a number of friends over the years completely abandon me just in times of dire need!! (I was feeling VERY sad over this or that (loss of my best friend, death of my dad or the singer in my band) and JUST wanted SOMEONE to talk to, and those I chose to turn to snubbed me or just didn't want to hear about my problems!! Suffice to say, I seriously doubt I ever tried to talk to them ever again!!)
I hope at least a COUPLE of your friends figure shit out and decide to come back and stick by you after all!!
Take care and just be happy that you are FINALLY on the right road to ACTUALLY becoming the TRUE YOU!! :-)
On one hand, it is said that if people you think are your friends won't stick by you no matter what, they were never really your friends to begin with, were they?
On the other hand, IF you think they are at least marginally open to hearing from you again, maybe you could write them a short letter and try to explain to them (if you haven't already) how they are throwing away a great friendship over something that YOU have no real control over. It's NOT YOUR fault that you are this way!! If they suddenly became invalids, would THEY like it if you threw away THEIR friendship simply because of something they had no real control over? Give them something to think about!!
If they don't see things in a better light after that, then, THAT'S not something you can help, either. I guess you'll just have to drop them from your friend list! Who knows, maybe, in time, they'll figure out that they fucked you over for a REALLY stupid reason and decide they really DO want to be your friend!
At least you have a FEW really good friends!! :-)
TRUST me, I KNOW how you feel about how much it hurts!! I've had a number of friends over the years completely abandon me just in times of dire need!! (I was feeling VERY sad over this or that (loss of my best friend, death of my dad or the singer in my band) and JUST wanted SOMEONE to talk to, and those I chose to turn to snubbed me or just didn't want to hear about my problems!! Suffice to say, I seriously doubt I ever tried to talk to them ever again!!)
I hope at least a COUPLE of your friends figure shit out and decide to come back and stick by you after all!!
Take care and just be happy that you are FINALLY on the right road to ACTUALLY becoming the TRUE YOU!! :-)