[GoneGirl]

Savannah, dear, are you prepared for your sit down with your spouse? Have you worked out what you are going to say? Do you have answers prepared for the obvious questions your wife will ask? Have you researched the subject of transgenderism well enough to explain its cause and its treatment? Do you have material at hand to give your wife to read, so that she has facts, not fiction, to base a response? If the answers to these questions are not an emphatic, "Yes", then I would hold off until you've done the necessary groundwork. You have one opportunity to do this right. If you muck it up, it may take years to recover her respect and trust.

Good luck, hon.
Clara