[MissC]

This isnt a "fantasy" for me, Im going all the way to the other side...

That is precisely your fantasy; that you can actually do that. That some pills and a lil' nip-tuck and a big chop and a couple sacks of silicone will actually make you a real girl. You're welcome to indulge yourself, as long as I'm not paying for it; it's a free country, or so we say. Hell, I indulge myself in some of my fantasies... but read my lips: it's a fucking fantasy!

I doubt YOU really get this stuff but whatever...

Yeah, I know, you're a special snowflake, nobody knows the trouble I've seen, no one else has ever had depression or an alcohol problem or a gender problem because obviously only people who arrive at your destination could have ever crossed paths before....

I mean, obviously you have issues I don't completely understand, because, well, I'm actually pretty sane, or so the voices tell me. That doesn't mean I haven't read your -- pretty much exact -- story (with different names and details of course) on a thousand tranny blogs. That, combined with my own experience, is my big box of "I Fuckin' Get It".

This forum is all about self medication, genetic males that want to grow tits

For adults. Adults legally capable of making their own decisions, and theoretically at least, after having given some consideration to consequences. Teenagers aren't good at this, which is why we don't allow them to buy handguns and alcohol.

Furthermore, this forum is about natural breast enhancement, and though it's metastasized beyond that, your "advice" was way out of scope. Castration? Srsly?

Reality is she will turn into a "man" eventually and theres only ONE way to stop that...

Death. Taxes seem unlikely to have an effect.

You might not get it but some of us wish we could have started young...

I am fully aware of that. It's why you're projecting your decades of regret onto a boy who's got his whole life out in front of him yet.

Know what I knew at his age? I knew I was a tranny. I knew I wanted to move away from my hometown, and I did it the very moment I had a diploma in my hands. I wasn't even 18 yet, but my parents let me fly the nest. Or "let" more like. Gender had nothing to do with that move, but the point is the same.

Should I have been messing with my hormones at that point? Oh hell no. I didn't, for the record, start doing that until about 3 years ago. Would I have even known where I was going? I'm midway 'tween 30 and 40, and I've only recently figured out what I want to do with my life vis-a-vis business. I'm pretty sure any life-altering decision I would have made at 13 would have been the wrong one. And hell, I came from a reasonably advantaged family with parents I didn't fear.

We have the benefit of hindsight, but it's always hard to know how much of what we remember was real, and how much we filled in later with analysis.

I donno how old she is, I do know that things are a lot better now than they were when I was young...

Better in many ways, yes, and certainly different. Bullying in general is less of a problem, and acceptance is growing rapidly for kids being different. It's unlikely to ever completely go away for children (viz. Lord of the Flies) but we all find that it goes away not long after high school, unless you end up in the N.F.L. Grown-up responsibilities make people more tolerant of others.

Adults, too, are free to move to places more amenable to their tastes and oddities, (e.g. most large cities are more LGBTABCD friendly than small towns). I know I'm not going to uproot from my city and move to a village in rural Mississippi any time soon. A kid is stuck, but that H.S. diploma is the light at the end of the tunnel. Just give the "Be All You Can Be" and "The Few, The Proud" opportunities a pass.

Life is all about choices, you present a well worn path and I present one that very few ever walk down much less really understand....

I'm going to explain why I think your "advice" was so awful, and then I'm going to tell you why I reacted to it the way I did.

My educated guess (trying not to assume, and I could be wrong) is that this lad comes from a blue-collar family. That's based on their presented religious bigotry, which tends to go on a scale inversely proportional to socio-economic status. I'm guessing also that he does not live in a large city or attend a large, diverse school system. Again, all guesses; it's a numbers game.

So what happens next, after Junior goes hunting that back-alley boob-juice?

Dad finds out, rages, kid runs away... something happens... and a 16-year-old runaway in a short skirt and bad wig ends up turning tricks in the seedy part of the nearest large city to feed a habit for electrolysis and knockoff Mexican spiro and probably crack too. And at 26, he's dead in a dumpster, OD'd on crank or stabbed by a "client", but, well, I guess that stopped him from growing up into a man.

Theoretical... but that story has been written too many times already. There is just no good end to your scenario. Even the best outcome leaves a broken family, and the 10 people who read your blog about your life are the only people who care.

So, in my eyes, you've committed the moral equivalent of kicking a puppy. If I saw a guy kick a puppy, I might not actually walk up and knee him in the jimmy... but I would not be very circumspect about my choice of language in explaining him his error.

I suspect if I were the kid's dad, and read this thread, I wouldn't be so nice. But like I said, all just supposition. I'll just say I hope you'll consider it tangentially to any future mentoring you give the young'uns.