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You have been at it for a couple years and seen your t shirt post awhile back and it seems without something compressing its obvious you have something under there. Any solutions you care to give?

Well, during the summer months a t-shirt is all I wear to cover my torso. I think if you wear too many layers in the summer you'll start to sweat and then your breasts will be really noticeable! I don't use compression shirts or binding during my daily activities, but I don't try to draw attention to my breasts either. I don't wear blouses or other clothing items that accentuates the breasts, so maybe that helps. Going topless though isn't an option for me though.

It may sound a little odd, but I think wearing male t-shirts with my breast development creates a sort of illusion. It looks like I have projection, but then I think you have to be looking for it to really notice it if that makes sense. I've probably got more attention when I shaved my legs (I don't now, I'm lazy), than I do now with my breast development. Of course, shaving one's legs is a conscious act, whether as you mentioned gyne is idiopathic. Ultimately, I've had the suspicion that perhaps because I don't try to adopt a feminine appearance otherwise, it makes it all the more likely for my breasts to be unnoticed. People are probably inclined to write off my breasts as a physical quirk than the product of a conscious act. I suppose if I was around small children or indiscriminate teenagers, they might blurt out that I have boobs.

When I've tried to conceal my breasts in the confines of my home, I actually end up feeling very feminine. Maybe it's some sort of mental push-back?