[flamesabers]

i've come to realize in all of my 28 years lol (i realize im a young guy compared to most here, and that is not to have intent for insult) that the less you give a shit about others opinions in the negative the less others chime in and less people take notice to it. Even if they do notice it, i workout often, my arms are quite big, my legs the same and such, i pose not as a woman at all, my face is a bit feminine and have been told i'd make a pretty girl if i tried it facially but other than that im not worried bout people really saying much about it cause I dont come off as someone who would have a "secret". Almost all cases of gyne is idiopathic so that alone gives limitless excuses as to why its occurring. My only concern is when warmer seasons come again and we get together with friends for volleyball or a float trip

I'm also 28.

I really agree with you about the importance of how having self-confidence when pursuing something like NBE. As for dealing with the warmer seasons, maybe by then you'll have a feasible solution that you are comfortable with?