[Marina Kits]

I probably don't have to repeat myself but I can't resist. If you have GID and you know it, you need to tell her everything especially at the tender age of your relationship. I know I'm incredibly lucky to have an understanding wife but emulating me by withholding that enormous bit about yourself and hoping for the same result is no way to treat your GF. Everything was different 21 years ago when I was in your shoes. There was no internet, no quality info about GID, transitioning was a virtual death sentence and for those who survived, there was NO public acceptance and certainly no real hope of finding companionship with either sex. It's nothing like that today - you have no good reason to mislead a potential life partner. If you were already married, I'd be giving you entirely different advice. If you're just a guy who wants his own pair of breasts, you already have permission for that but I suspect there's more to it than that and I think you know it. I'm being brutally honest but I mean no ill will towards you ImWeird.