15-10-2014, 12:58 PM
Wow, that's just under half that SURVIVE! That's not that far from marriages in general. Thanks for sharing your experience b.rose. Still, I don't want to overlook the ones that didn't make it and perhaps the ones who did but don't have the emotional intimacy most human beings crave. My heart goes out to them. I can't imagine how painful it would be to do this TG thing with a struggling marriage or worse yet a broken one that makes you wonder if YOUR TG is cause of it not working out. Oh, and we can't forget the ones who are unattached and looking for a soul mate who will understand their TG. That's tough too.
I agree with b.rose's advice 100%. Off the top of my head I'd add; make it your goal to tell her EVERYTHING from the past and then let her "green light" every step you take from now on. If you do a good job of sacrificially loving her, it's my contention that any good willed wife will in turn, sacrificially love you also in surprising ways. It takes time and hard work ...and sadly, there are no guarantees.
I agree with b.rose's advice 100%. Off the top of my head I'd add; make it your goal to tell her EVERYTHING from the past and then let her "green light" every step you take from now on. If you do a good job of sacrificially loving her, it's my contention that any good willed wife will in turn, sacrificially love you also in surprising ways. It takes time and hard work ...and sadly, there are no guarantees.