[maturemetalsub]

I don't get it, and it's certainly not what I (we) expected. I'm 60, but in good fit shape and what my wife calls an "alpha male". At the same time I'm "freaked" by what happened so quickly, but also submissively intoxicated by it. I did not read postings that this could happen so quickly with PM, but I also read the "warnings" to be careful if you're not sure what you want, and that PM was serious (i.e. don't go there unless you're confident). So far, we're totally ok with the path, especially my wife which is 180 degrees from what I expected.