[Jaded Jade]

Ah, my tone was more intense than I intended.

I hope I did not offend anyone here, because none of my comment was about the crew at Nexus! (Just some personal regret that I chose inaction years ago because of some toxic and incorrect comments I heard elsewhere.)

I like the openness and diversity of path, opinion and approach here. I appreciate the gentle wisdom that starting out thinking you are only androgynous often is the step to more. Even though I don't think it will for me, it has helped to hear it. Others have stayed in the middle by choice or necessity here and I find it inspiring!

And some of the warnings that things like BO should be avoided unless I want to go further...

And the golden advice to talk to my DW as early as possible.

So to be clear, I didn't want to start any debates of offend anyone, if I even say something stupid or unintentionally hurtful please PM me and I will edit it!


- Jade