[tanysquirrel]

I mean, too bad you didn't both know about your desire to transition when you were both a lot younger, you could've had all that much more support in THAT aspect. It would've been better than to have to hide from each other, too, when you were both in the same boat. Camaraderie, especially amongst peers, helps a LOT!!!! You could've had each other to talk things through about it over the decades.

she and i did not keep in contact for a period of ten or so years,. wasnt a matter of hiding from each other, but yes i agree that would have been a great help.