[GoneGirl]

After a rough day on Friday with my O&O (see posts elsewhere), last night she urged that Annie deserved her freedom, and that she was fully supportive of any measures to release my true nature, even up to and including SRS if any responsible surgeon was willing to do it, provided only that she was along for the ride as a full partner.

Hurrah! Now we wait for Heather's good news. I was talking to a T-girl last night who has been having similar difficulties getting her wife's acceptance. We both agreed that it's very important to include the wife as not just as an interested observer, but as a full participating co-transitioner, if you will. After all, the S.O. is also making a difficult transition to a life she never imagined a few short weeks or months before. I've started saying "our transition" and "we're transitioning" when discussing it with others. It brings a smile my DW's face when I do that. I know she's pleased to be recognized in that way.

Clara