[undecided]

I didn't have kids living at home when I came out to my DW, so I was not faced with the problem that you are, Janet. If I had kids living at home at the time, I don't think I would have told them. Certainly not without my wife's okay. Telling the kids is not necessary, although it will put a cramp in your in-home CD activities. Coming out to your wife is going to be hard enough. So focus on that. Have you thought about how to break the news to her?

Clara

I have almost done it twice. ( almost doesn't count ) I would like to get this over with in the next week or so, if not for piece mind, to finally get some decent sleep. I have the basic outline already printed out, its just so hard with the kids around too. ( it seems easier to make up excuses than do the actual tell )