[Samantha Rogers]

Janet, I was in the closet for a long time and finally told my wife back in late January. I still have 21 yr old son and a 17 yr old daughter at home who do not know, which makes it tough. I expect I will tell them both eventually but am not yet ready to do so. Yes, once the genii is out you can't put it back in.
I am the last one that will advise you on this but for me, I wish I had spoken sooner.
Good luck, seetheart.