16-06-2014, 07:08 PM
Just a quick question to you girls ...
How many of you came out to your DW whilst still having the kids at home ?
I`m really at a point I need to bring this up, ( in my mind ) its one thing to keep a secret from your loved one, for the sake of the marriage, but i`m finding it morally wrong to see a psychiatrist behind her back. I have two boys 14 and 19 years of age, living at home. So even though I feel I kneed to open up to my DW, I also don't feel the need for the two kids to find out, not at this time.
It also looks like a few of you joined this site before opening up to the DW, have you since showed her this site ? what were her views on the posts?
Have you also opened up to other family members? close friends ?
The last time I opened up in my early teens, it cost me a girlfriend and what few friends I had, so you can see i`m a little gun shy at this point.
How many of you came out to your DW whilst still having the kids at home ?
I`m really at a point I need to bring this up, ( in my mind ) its one thing to keep a secret from your loved one, for the sake of the marriage, but i`m finding it morally wrong to see a psychiatrist behind her back. I have two boys 14 and 19 years of age, living at home. So even though I feel I kneed to open up to my DW, I also don't feel the need for the two kids to find out, not at this time.
It also looks like a few of you joined this site before opening up to the DW, have you since showed her this site ? what were her views on the posts?
Have you also opened up to other family members? close friends ?
The last time I opened up in my early teens, it cost me a girlfriend and what few friends I had, so you can see i`m a little gun shy at this point.