14-06-2014, 02:59 AM
Welcome, Robyn.
You seem so sure your wife wouldn't tolerate your TG nature. How do you know that? I thought the same way, but when I finally came out to my O&O she eventually became supportive. I couldn't bare the shame and guilt of continuing to go behind her back. I'm glad I took the chance on telling her. Of course, it might not have worked out the way it did, so one has to be careful. Somehow test her attitudes beforehand.
Good luck on your NBE program.
Clara
You seem so sure your wife wouldn't tolerate your TG nature. How do you know that? I thought the same way, but when I finally came out to my O&O she eventually became supportive. I couldn't bare the shame and guilt of continuing to go behind her back. I'm glad I took the chance on telling her. Of course, it might not have worked out the way it did, so one has to be careful. Somehow test her attitudes beforehand.
Good luck on your NBE program.
Clara