[AnnieBL]

Well, Annie, I, of course, no nothing of such things, but I am told, or at least I have heard it whispered, that there are, in certain quarters (where I am sure I might never venture), certain business establishments of most assuredly unsavory reputation who will, for a price, provide one with ....objects? ....of rather devious nature that can, when employed properly (if such a word is appropriate at all in this context) substitute quite effectively in the long run for any inadequacies you (or I...tee hee) may face. Perhaps this might provide refief for your lesbian conundrum?
LOL
Sammie

Sorry, Sammie, I overlooked this when you posted it - something went wrong with the quoting in your post so that it dropped into your quote from me.
Yes indeed I have such an ...object?... which in fact represents quite a good representation of what I used to be able to deploy myself. It was intended for use with a harness but I found that driving in that manner provides quite inadequate feedback as to what it is doing, so manual operation is much more effective all around. The problem with this, and other toys, is that they don't actually require a male driver, and can be and are equally well used by those of female gender, possibly acquiring for themselves in the process a sexual orientation in accordance with the gender of the driver.
Of all the various 'aids' we have tried, only that and one other have been really successful, and both are currently sidelined until we get things sorted out a bit further. Hugs and kisses still available.