10-06-2014, 12:31 AM
(03-06-2014, 03:19 AM)ClaraKay Wrote: [quote='kimdl93' pid='117533' dateline='1401757797']
[quote='ClaraKay' pid='116065' dateline='1401149006']
Just to follow up on this point, Kim.....
I stumbled on this website Flexuality about human sexual orientation. Apparently, most of us are a lot more bisexual than we think.
Here’s a graph showing the actual sexual types of the approximately 8,000 men and women who have taken the test, by percentage and broken down according to whether the subject self-identified as heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual:
Here a link to the test where you will find the definitions of the sexual orientations shown in the graph. Take the Test
Notice that 75% of people who took the test and self identified as heterosexual turn out to be ambisexual (~25%) or heteroflexible (~50%).
Ambisexual: You are attracted to both men and women, though not necessarily in the same ways or to the same degree. Also known as classic bisexual, AC-DC, 50-50, or a Kinsey 3.
Heteroflexible: You are open to fooling around with someone of the same sex, even though you generally consider yourself straight. Also known as bi-curious, questioning, experimenting, or mostly straight.
This may explain why a straight wife will often be attracted to a trans husband even after much feminization has occurred.
It certainly has worked out that way in my marriage.
Clara
A GG friend on another site and I had a private discussion on this topic. She was self described bisexual in a relationship with a CDr who was bi curious. Her observation, one which I tend to concur with, is that two consenting adults can, in the bedroom, put a sided defined sexual roles and expectations...and just let it flow. I think that fairly describes the situation for my wife and I. She, of course knows that I am both consciously and innately attuned to expressing love as a woman...that's just where I go, and she's good with it.
Kim



